INSIGHTS
INCENTIVES
COMFORT
Lynn is my name and although it seems to have taken quite a long time, I am feeling true comfort in my life, not just physically, because fortunately, I have had that all my life -- but comfort in my thoughts. These stories convey my progress but surprisingly, comfort was not the goal for any of these experiences – it was instead, a gift for my steps taken.
In my day-to-day living, I have been able to have thoughts come to me that improve my way of life – little things that change the way I do things or the way I arrange things. Emotions sometimes got in my way but, although exposing them was ‘yucky’ at times, ridding of them was very magical in the end.
As you read my words and listen to my voice, may the deeper message of each story find its place within you.
Warmth
I have been learning lately that the most important feeling to have these days is that of comfort. Comfort physically, mentally and emotionally. So, what provides me with a feeling of comfort? I have discovered it is Warmth, so that is the name of my story. Warmth is created by Light Energy. The earth has opposites in energy known as positive and negative, which most times means light and dark, and warmth is on the positive side of energy. Warmth is when I am in my home, with the fireplace on and reading a good book. That provides comfort on any evening or Sunday. Along the same lines would be the warmth provided in a shower, which is delightful especially in the morning. A hot meal that is from nature and very tasty, is a form of comfortable love showing that I care for myself in that way. My body is comfortable and has a warm feeling of contentment after a bowl of home-made soup. Nothing like good, nourishing food. I feel a warm feeling deep inside of me when I am driving in the country and look upon the fields, and trees and the mountains and sky. A peaceful warmth that sort of fills my heart! And gazing at a lake or river provides a form of comfort like nothing else in the world. A sense of accomplishment definitely provides me with that feeling throughout my body. Sounds rather funny, but that is true. My thoughts are at rest, my body is at rest and my emotions are at rest. When a project has been finished, I recognize the benefits to me of doing a good job and am so pleased when it works out. A wonderful feeling fills me up! Discovering that relaxation is a combination of all three of my bodies, assists me to recognize that comfort comes from all, not just one. Comfort is a complete feeling, and the descriptive word is warmth. Feeling ‘content’ is another result. Warmth in a voice is wonderful to hear, and it seems that the words seem more magical. On the other hand, if I have set goals for myself, I have found that my sense of comfort and warmth are not as noticeable. I need to have goals that are flexible for success in order to feel the warmth. If not, setting goals is not a good idea for me. A definite lesson. Comfort is warmth – warmth that sometimes comes from my heart, my mind or my body. Love them all, that is for sure. #55-Comfort-008
Honour
Words are very interesting. I am finding that sometimes a word that is used quite often in our world is accepted without truly understanding what it means to its fullest concept. For example, I have been asked to honour myself and respect others. Interesting concept of course and sometimes I find that easy to implement and sometimes not. Am I really to respect all other people in the world these days? The answer is yes of course, but it dredges up emotions when some people are acting like idiots. But this story is not about respect, it is about Honour – the word honour actually. Honour means that I am willing to maintain a thought about something for a period of timing that allows me to recognize and realize the value of a person, possession or a form of education. I would require the time to develop the honour of course and I understand that the most important aspect of that word is to honour my own thoughts and words. I have discovered however, that there is positive honour and negative honour. That might sound confusing, so let me explain. As a child, I was asked if I wanted to take swimming lessons and my answer was an emphatic no. Maybe because it was someone else’s idea. But later, when I had the idea, I said yes and I have maintained and honoured that part of my life ever since. Swimming is something that I do, that I enjoy and that I honour and I have done so for a long time. I was also taught that the laws of the nation were to be upheld and respected. I accepted that then and I have, throughout my lifetime, always honoured the rules, regulations and laws of society, as dull as that might seem. On the other hand, some aspects of society seem unbalanced to me and instead of feeling emotional, I needed to respect those imbalances. They are negative honour, which sounds funny, but it is true. As just a few examples, I find life is unbalanced between genders, especially in wages or money proprietorship. That’s quite a word, eh? Proprietorship. There is the imbalance in partnerships and marriages, or the control over others for gain. I have maintained and honoured these thoughts, but I also realize that it is emotions that have kept them within me for so long. Now I need to cut the anger, despair, disgust, frustration and whatever else I could name and replace it with ‘respect’. Change my thought and the emotions will disappear. And then there is honour that is misplaced, and one example of that is the fear of finances or money. All I ever wanted was ‘enough’ to have a healthy life – not less and not more. How bizarre was that? I had a fear of taking responsibility for money of any amount over the necessities. I needed to adjust my thoughts and begin to respect money and accept that whatever comes my way, I could handle. So I have managed to understand three types of honour and what is the best for me to give up or keep within me. Honour of my positive thoughts that are for me in my life, honour of anything negative by removing the emotion and replacing it with respect and honour of my misplaced thoughts. Interesting learning for sure. I will honour that! #55-Comfort-007
Harassment
Years ago, I was introduced to energy healing and used that extra energy on myself. That lead to learning about some emotional crap that was sitting inside of me, and it was time for it to rise and shine. Or so it seemed. I was introduced to what is called an ‘Emotional Release’. It took quite a few releases to rid of the lifetimes wherein I was sexually abused – as both male and female. After that, I recognized or discovered that some of my habits, my traits, my opinions or perspectives in parts of my present life were carried forward from the lives I lived previously. For example, I was not in favour of sexual promiscuity, pornography, recreational sex and anything other than the sexual act with love involved. Actually, ‘not in favour’ is probably a polite way to phrase it. I would become angry inside, and my opinions were often let out. Not pretty of course, but I calmed down after the emotional releases. Releasing the emotion buildup inside let my thoughts alter and become more accepting towards others’ behaviour. I would follow my concept of what was good for me and let everyone else do theirs. Then I was introduced to Harassment, which is the title of this story. Harassment became part of my life in the workplace, and although that is hard to believe, it is definitely true. There are many descriptions of harassment, mine was about – guess? Sex. Yuck! I could have been called an ‘innocent’ in that world of knowledge, even though I was married and had two children. I never went into the world that they were harassing me about. Salt Peter, Sex Toys, Edible Underwear. You name it and they harassed me about it. Not pleasant. They would ask me a question, and when I didn’t know the answer, they laughed and made fun. Rather than the physical harassment from other lifetimes, I was being mentally harassed. As long as I worked there, the harassment continued. I eventually left that job and no longer had to think about the harassment or the people who were responsible. Nowadays with the increase in vibrational rate via the earth’s changes, everyone is automatically having forms of energy healing. My healing goal is Comfort in my thoughts about the sexual body. The harassment damaged my feeling of self-worth and humiliated me. I discovered recently that I still had residue of the harassment, so I am writing this story to bring it out in the open and let it go. No one on earth needs to be harassed about any topic. It is a big negative in our world. Love and sexual activity is very positive. Sex that is abused, used and demanded is very negative. I think of it this way – if we were talking about a part of the human body and used an arm for an example – it can be used for a hug that is positive or as a weapon that is negative. Are our sexual organs the same as our arm or does it deserve more respect in how it is being utilized? Perhaps it is wise to change that negativity into positivity. #55-Comfort-005
Success
There is a joy in living each day, knowing that I have learnt something. It brings about new thoughts, new possibilities and new ideas of how to be me. When I gaze upon or think about other people, it seems the same is happening for them. It is obvious that everyone on earth has at least one ability and likely many more. What is it that allows us to notice an ability and how successful it is possible to be in our life? The noticing comes about because we have an interest in a topic, discover we feel comfortable with it and pursue how many ways it can be handled. The thing is, we have three main aspects about us – our physical body, our mental capability and our emotional base. I certainly recognize my physical body by looking in the mirror. My mental capacity is how I process my world and my emotions can be noticed in both good and not so good ways on a daily basis. When I pull all of my three components together, I am successful at what I am doing. The title of this story is Success. Am I the same as everyone else? I believe so, in the basics of requiring an interest in a portion of life and then using all of it together and expressing it as an ability that is enjoyable on a daily basis. Examples are ball players – it doesn’t matter which sport it is – they need the physical components of eye hand coordination, they require the thoughts about the game itself and what is required by each player and they need the emotional stamina it requires to carry them through to be successful in that sport. Success does not come from just the physical aspects. It requires all three together. When a detective is required to solve a case of some sort, all three of physical, mental and emotional are required to achieve success. The same with an inventor of anything new and exciting. The same for writers of music, books, movie scripts. Some authors call their ability to achieve as having a ‘muse’. Those are just a few examples. No matter the ability, when all three aspects are utilized by us, it is called being a channel. If we only use the physical ability, we are a channel as well, but success will not be ours. What does the actual word ‘Channeling’ mean? – my Winston Dictionary states: a way by which anything may be carried or communicated; a way to cut through; a water channel between two pieces of land and a few more descriptions. So the dictionary indicates that all of us qualify to have the ‘anything’ that may be carried or communicated’ and that means all of us are channels of many interesting aspects in life. Luckily, we are varied in our interests. My personal interest is in ‘energy’ of all types we experience. I have that basic connection to it, so my channeling is about energy of three varieties. The mental capacity is the universal energy connection. The physical body is the earth energy connection, and the emotional component is the personal energy. May we all discover the ability that brings comfort to us! #55-Comfort-006
Connections
The world is full of people, places and a gazillion things. Things that people create and things that nature presents. How do I choose what I like and what I need in my life, what colour it might be? Why do I choose certain people to be in my life, when there are so many in the world at large? Why do we meet? Fascinating questions really which got me to thinking about connections. That is the title of this story: Connections. As I think about my life growing up, it seems that I felt a connection to interesting aspects of life – maybe some that seemed a little odd to others – but they were real to me. For instance, I had and still have a connection to puppies, but very seldom to kittens. I have a connection to the oak tree for its looks, but also what beautiful furniture it is able to create. A feeling about colours in flowers and how they blend together to encourage me to feel good, deep inside. As I was growing up, I met a lot of people my age of course, but I felt a connection to the ones that seemed to be a little outside of the mainstream, and I wanted to know them better. I was amazed at how differently they thought from me. It helped me to learn more about life and how we are similar with others -- but we sure are not the same. What type of connections did I feel about the opposite gender as to who looked attractive and who didn’t and why? I wasn’t judging really, simply looking for a comfort between myself and them. I found very few along the way – haha. I love rock – my grandfather’s cottage was placed on rock – no grass to cut there! It was beautiful and you could spread your towels or blankets on the rock and sunbathe and no sand would get into the towels. I learnt how to dive off those rocks too and found it was fun, but it wasn’t very high over the water, so it was an easy dive. So now, I am thinking about what assists me to utilize my ability of channeling. What assists me to live life in comfort, and what seems to keep the world turning so I can enjoy the sun and the moon and the stars. What brings the weather I experience when sometimes it seems gentle and sometimes it seems furious. I recognize that everything that happens, does so for a reason and most often I do not know the reason. But with everyone thinking differently, it makes sense there is something that is in charge and my discovery was and is, that it is a different energy level than I am able to note. This energy is a connection I have made and I feel comfortable with. No matter what I am doing and feeling and experiencing, it is a connection to the energy of the universe. Different names for it all I guess, but it is real. I am able to think and it happens because of the connection. I am able to utilize my connection to feel comfortable with my ability usage of channeling. I am able to know that what takes place within and surrounding me is for me personally in order to learn. A connection – my personal energy with the earth energy and the universal energy and all in comfort. A gift is what that is and I say thanks. #55-Comfort-004
The next Comfort story will be posted on July 20, 2026 and every third week thereafter.
