INSIGHTS
INCENTIVES
COMFORT
Lynn is my name and although it seems to have taken quite a long time, I am feeling true comfort in my life, not just physically, because fortunately, I have had that all my life -- but comfort in my thoughts. These stories convey my progress but surprisingly, comfort was not the goal for any of these experiences – it was instead, a gift for my steps taken.
In my day-to-day living, I have been able to have thoughts come to me that improve my way of life – little things that change the way I do things or the way I arrange things. Emotions sometimes got in my way but, although exposing them was ‘yucky’ at times, ridding of them was very magical in the end.
As you read my words and listen to my voice, may the deeper message of each story find its place within you.
Success
There is a joy in living each day, knowing that I have learnt something. It brings about new thoughts, new possibilities and new ideas of how to be me. When I gaze upon or think about other people, it seems the same is happening for them. It is obvious that everyone on earth has at least one ability and likely many more. What is it that allows us to notice an ability and how successful it is possible to be in our life? The noticing comes about because we have an interest in a topic, discover we feel comfortable with it and pursue how many ways it can be handled. The thing is, we have three main aspects about us – our physical body, our mental capability and our emotional base. I certainly recognize my physical body by looking in the mirror. My mental capacity is how I process my world and my emotions can be noticed in both good and not so good ways on a daily basis. When I pull all of my three components together, I am successful at what I am doing. The title of this story is Success. Am I the same as everyone else? I believe so, in the basics of requiring an interest in a portion of life and then using all of it together and expressing it as an ability that is enjoyable on a daily basis. Examples are ball players – it doesn’t matter which sport it is – they need the physical components of eye hand coordination, they require the thoughts about the game itself and what is required by each player and they need the emotional stamina it requires to carry them through to be successful in that sport. Success does not come from just the physical aspects. It requires all three together. When a detective is required to solve a case of some sort, all three of physical, mental and emotional are required to achieve success. The same with an inventor of anything new and exciting. The same for writers of music, books, movie scripts. Some authors call their ability to achieve as having a ‘muse’. Those are just a few examples. No matter the ability, when all three aspects are utilized by us, it is called being a channel. If we only use the physical ability, we are a channel as well, but success will not be ours. What does the actual word ‘Channeling’ mean? – my Winston Dictionary states: a way by which anything may be carried or communicated; a way to cut through; a water channel between two pieces of land and a few more descriptions. So the dictionary indicates that all of us qualify to have the ‘anything’ that may be carried or communicated’ and that means all of us are channels of many interesting aspects in life. Luckily, we are varied in our interests. My personal interest is in ‘energy’ of all types we experience. I have that basic connection to it, so my channeling is about energy of three varieties. The mental capacity is the universal energy connection. The physical body is the earth energy connection, and the emotional component is the personal energy. May we all discover the ability that brings comfort to us! #55-Comfort-006
Connections
The world is full of people, places and a gazillion things. Things that people create and things that nature presents. How do I choose what I like and what I need in my life, what colour it might be? Why do I choose certain people to be in my life, when there are so many in the world at large? Why do we meet? Fascinating questions really which got me to thinking about connections. That is the title of this story: Connections. As I think about my life growing up, it seems that I felt a connection to interesting aspects of life – maybe some that seemed a little odd to others – but they were real to me. For instance, I had and still have a connection to puppies, but very seldom to kittens. I have a connection to the oak tree for its looks, but also what beautiful furniture it is able to create. A feeling about colours in flowers and how they blend together to encourage me to feel good, deep inside. As I was growing up, I met a lot of people my age of course, but I felt a connection to the ones that seemed to be a little outside of the mainstream, and I wanted to know them better. I was amazed at how differently they thought from me. It helped me to learn more about life and how we are similar with others -- but we sure are not the same. What type of connections did I feel about the opposite gender as to who looked attractive and who didn’t and why? I wasn’t judging really, simply looking for a comfort between myself and them. I found very few along the way – haha. I love rock – my grandfather’s cottage was placed on rock – no grass to cut there! It was beautiful and you could spread your towels or blankets on the rock and sunbathe and no sand would get into the towels. I learnt how to dive off those rocks too and found it was fun, but it wasn’t very high over the water, so it was an easy dive. So now, I am thinking about what assists me to utilize my ability of channeling. What assists me to live life in comfort, and what seems to keep the world turning so I can enjoy the sun and the moon and the stars. What brings the weather I experience when sometimes it seems gentle and sometimes it seems furious. I recognize that everything that happens, does so for a reason and most often I do not know the reason. But with everyone thinking differently, it makes sense there is something that is in charge and my discovery was and is, that it is a different energy level than I am able to note. This energy is a connection I have made and I feel comfortable with. No matter what I am doing and feeling and experiencing, it is a connection to the energy of the universe. Different names for it all I guess, but it is real. I am able to think and it happens because of the connection. I am able to utilize my connection to feel comfortable with my ability usage of channeling. I am able to know that what takes place within and surrounding me is for me personally in order to learn. A connection – my personal energy with the earth energy and the universal energy and all in comfort. A gift is what that is and I say thanks. #55-Comfort-004
Days of the Week
Hidden gems within us! An interesting topic. What is hidden within us – maybe thoughts, maybe desires or maybe many, many emotions that trigger those thoughts and desires. Well, lo and behold – it seems like we are quite often feeling what is attached to words and common aspects of life. Have I ever wondered what names are able to trigger my emotions or titles of something, like the Days of the Week? No, I hadn’t, but that is the title of this story. Seems strange that I would have a definite feeling or attitude towards the names of the days themselves. But it is true. I ask myself why? Well, it all has to do with my emotions hidden within me, apparently. Those hidden emotions are starting to let themselves be noticed. That is because the earth itself is doing the same thing. No more hidden aspects on the earth, with creatures and trees and plants and especially humans. Volcanoes erupt and earthquakes take place to assist the earth to expose the hidden aspects. It’s an interesting world we live in right now. So, what does that mean to me? In some cases, physical movement helps rid of emotions, but that is only a smidge in comparison to what I have within me. I have been accumulating them for several lifetimes now and I am the one to rid of them at long last. I am able to write about them and then burn it in the kitchen sink. Another idea is to simply talk about them. Once they are out in the open, they don’t seem to be so devastating. The result of either of these methods is the emotion is gone or lowered somewhat and more comfort in my bodies takes place. There is energy in words of course. After all, everything is energy. Society, over many, many years, has made certain we all have a ‘feeling’ about the days of the week, so I am using them as an example. What is my feeling for the days of the week? The days that feel best to me are Sunday and Thursday. They are the days I awaken to a feeling of freedom to be more of me and I definitely enjoy that kind of day – nothing new or exciting perse, but days that I am just able to be me and with more timing rather than time. But this is how I feel about each day of the week. • Monday feels like a day to ‘start’ something new. • Tuesday is about getting the job done. • Wednesday is a day to try something new. • Thursday is a healing day. • Friday is a get up and at it kind of day. • Saturday is laundry and cleaning day. • Sunday is a calming kind of day. I haven’t noticed more emotional exposure on certain days in particular. I remind myself that any emotions that come from me are mine and come to light thanks to someone else, and not because of someone or something else. Comfort is my goal. #55-Comfort-002
Harassment
Years ago, I was introduced to energy healing and used that extra energy on myself. That lead to learning about some emotional crap that was sitting inside of me, and it was time for it to rise and shine. Or so it seemed. I was introduced to what is called an ‘Emotional Release’. It took quite a few releases to rid of the lifetimes wherein I was sexually abused – as both male and female. After that, I recognized or discovered that some of my habits, my traits, my opinions or perspectives in parts of my present life were carried forward from the lives I lived previously. For example, I was not in favour of sexual promiscuity, pornography, recreational sex and anything other than the sexual act with love involved. Actually, ‘not in favour’ is probably a polite way to phrase it. I would become angry inside, and my opinions were often let out. Not pretty of course, but I calmed down after the emotional releases. Releasing the emotion buildup inside let my thoughts alter and become more accepting towards others’ behaviour. I would follow my concept of what was good for me and let everyone else do theirs. Then I was introduced to Harassment, which is the title of this story. Harassment became part of my life in the workplace, and although that is hard to believe, it is definitely true. There are many descriptions of harassment, mine was about – guess? Sex. Yuck! I could have been called an ‘innocent’ in that world of knowledge, even though I was married and had two children. I never went into the world that they were harassing me about. Salt Peter, Sex Toys, Edible Underwear. You name it and they harassed me about it. Not pleasant. They would ask me a question, and when I didn’t know the answer, they laughed and made fun. Rather than the physical harassment from other lifetimes, I was being mentally harassed. As long as I worked there, the harassment continued. I eventually left that job and no longer had to think about the harassment or the people who were responsible. Nowadays with the increase in vibrational rate via the earth’s changes, everyone is automatically having forms of energy healing. My healing goal is Comfort in my thoughts about the sexual body. The harassment damaged my feeling of self-worth and humiliated me. I discovered recently that I still had residue of the harassment, so I am writing this story to bring it out in the open and let it go. No one on earth needs to be harassed about any topic. It is a big negative in our world. Love and sexual activity is very positive. Sex that is abused, used and demanded is very negative. I think of it this way – if we were talking about a part of the human body and used an arm for an example – it can be used for a hug that is positive or as a weapon that is negative. Are our sexual organs the same as our arm or does it deserve more respect in how it is being utilized? Perhaps it is wise to change that negativity into positivity. #55-Comfort-005
Decision Making
Life is quite often full of questions that deserve answers, ideas that need implementation, and of course great big decisions of how to live in this world of ours comfortably. Some are easy and once made, the next time something similar happens, it is easy to do the same thing. I guess in some ways, the simple ones become habits and rather automatic. This story is about Decision Making. Decision making is an interesting concept for me personally. I want to weigh the pros and cons, how I feel and how the other people involved might feel and whether it could be detrimental in any way or will it produce a smile on my face. Sometimes I ask for someone’s advice and then do the weighing back and forth once again. Also, I found that if someone asks me a question, out of the blue, I am liable to answer yes immediately, but if I gave it a bit of thought at all, my answer likely would have been no. Am I good at instant decision making? I would say not, other than the easy day to day ones like when to eat and when to sleep and such. What is a decision anyway? Is it a question of yes or no, or do I reach out for more? Will it affect just me, or does it affect others? Is this life-changing or will it have a minimal impact on my life? I am coming to understand that my decisions need to provide me with a sense of comfort. It’s important to me to feel comfortable in the implementation of whatever decision I make. Sometimes my decisions don’t work out too well and I experience frustration. Other times, I find my decisions work out really well and then I’m quite happy. Either way, the decision allowed emotion – frustration or happiness – to surface. Interesting! Perhaps my inability to make some decisions comfortably is wrapped in emotional garbage. Decisions that I was required to make as I was growing up came to me easily because ‘respect’ was my criteria. Respect for myself in all my bodies. When making decisions as an adult, especially those that involve others, I have a tendency to put them first. Of course, when I do this, I’m uncomfortable and eventually, I’ll change my decision. A big learning! I have also found out that one of my biggest mistakes was that I cared too much about what others thought. How do I really know what others are thinking? I don’t of course. Which leads me right back to the state of comfort I need from the results of my decision. I found that the length of time it takes to make a decision can affect my physical health. Emotions become involved and my thoughts get all twisted about. Standing up for myself and speaking on behalf of myself is a much better plan. What I have learned about decision making, is that I need to make sure that it is good for me, respectful for me and my thoughts, my finances and my emotions, and that I can maintain comfort throughout the process of making that something happen. I need to think of myself first because I am important. Do I need an explanation for others about the decisions I make? No, I do not! Once again, respect for me is paramount. #55-Comfort-003
The next Comfort story will be posted on June 8, 2026 and every third week thereafter.
